Blow the candles out,
If Life is Like a Show (Tuesday, December 2, 2008)
Alot of people say that life is like a show, it is the visual capture of our life. If life is like a show, I will write it in a way that I want it to happen. But life doesn't always goes in the way that you wan it to. I begin to question myself what do I exactly want in life? Why do people have conflicts with one another? Why can't I enjoy the kind of happiness that other people have? Why Why Why.....and many more why(s).Sometimes I complain, I sigh, I cry and in the end I gain nothing. So why am I feeling this way?Becuz I think life is precious, I live once so I want to make full use of my everyday. So I play, hang out, have fun, try to laugh but things turns out to be another way. The more I fight for it, the more I want things to happen in the way I want the more I lose, the more I am being disliked.
I wonder, I ponder for days, weeks and months, then I realised today. It's just like holding a bunch of sand in your hand, if you grab it too tight, the more easily the sand will slip off. But if you try to loosen your grab, you realized that you are more able to hold the sand in your hand. It is most real when we let things go naturally.
I used to brood over that if things can remain unchanged and everything will still be the same as before how great will it be? But I think is time to change my naive mentality. Flexibility and changed seems to be the trend now. Everyday the world is spinning, everyone is moving and if I continue to stay at the same spot and keep looking back I will soon be left out.
From now onwards, Vie should learnt when and how to let go, be cheerful, more happy, more talented and moved on with the nature. But the 'never say die' phrase seems ironic to what I am saying.
Got to thanks Faa for making me realised that I have got to move on....being myself and making me understand the nature course! Yeah! That should be the way to go Vie! =)
I would say Life is more like the Many Lessons that we need to learnt and realized in order for us to grow up.
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